A room for your fire.
Twelve women only. If you have the word, you already belong here.
Pole Play Day &
Small Bites
Come as you are. Leave embodied and alive.
This is an invitation — to your body, your play, your pleasure. No performance. No perfecting. Just permission.
The Ranch House
What to Wear
Arrive in something soft and easy — yoga clothes are perfect. But pack a change bag, because you'll want something with a little more edge for what comes next.
See wardrobe inspiration →Light Fare
Bread & olive oil, a simple summer salad, fruit and charcuterie — laid out to graze on between rounds.
Gretchen Fox Palmer is the creator of the Tending the Fire theology and author of the forthcoming book Your Fire Is Calling: A Field Guide. This gathering lives inside two of its core teachings — Body Sovereignty, the reclamation of bodily autonomy through somatic movement, and Feminine and Masculine Fire, the erotic life force as mystery, allure, and power fully embodied. Pole becomes the practice ground: a place to feel your own fire, wield it on your terms, and remember what it is to move through the world fully lit.
Twelve women. One fire. See you at the ranch.